Denial of the senses, labelling them evil or even completely prohibiting sense indulgence is not the Buddhist way. Meditation and mindfulness allow practitioners to deal with sensuality wisely, particularly if it is destructive to one's self or others.
And, according to Ajahn Brahm, those who *really* want to be deviant and head towards nibbana (enlightenment): "Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side..." - and try celibacy.
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Thankyou for the link i have had a quick look and will go back for a more thorough look later. I follow Tibetan buddhism and i guess you follow Theravadan, so we will be heading in the same direction but on slightly different paths :) Yes, there are good and bad Sanga just as with everything.
English is a poor language to study the dharma, it dosen't have a direct translation of many of the original words, this often leads to misunderstandings on a forum i visit. I have watched many of the teachings by Tsem Tulku Rinpoche on his site and on youtube, i think this is where i heard abou
t the buddhist attitude to sex that i mentioned, maybe i took it out of context.
— S.iii.53-54
Regards, MorganAnson
or think too much and do nothing. either way, it's not gonna be good the best way is to do things with ease and take the path of least resistant. Not thinking too much and not doing too much. That's the balanced middle way.